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Love marriage Vs Arrange Marriage

Paths alone differ.Life destination is same.
My views about Love marriage and Arrange Marriage

1.Love marriage is eating the already tasted dosa.So nothing more to think about as we know the taste already.Arrange marriage is keeping the mouth wide open and waiting for the dosa with mixed of thoughts and emotions.If it is crispy fine or else have to drink the water and close the mouth.

2.In Love marriage, as performance and outcomes of each other are known already, the expectation levels can be pre-determined.In arrange marriage,expectation levels cannot be determined.

3.Love marriage is daring to face all kind of future situations alone in person including the mishappenings if any happened.Need to be more responsible and take care each other.Arrange marriage has less burden as it has more helping hands to take care without being invited.when the love marriage is arranged then it is bliss.

4.Love marriage is maintaining the already trained individual.Arrange marriage is training the new individual without knowing whether the candidate is eligible for training.

5.Love marriage is spicy, very thrilling and is like locking what we want exactly.But Love is a spring breeze.It comes and it gives tremendous fragrance, beauty -- but it goes. When it comes it gives the feeling that it is going to remain forever strong beyond doubt.We give promises and our beloved gives promises without knowing that the love is a spring breeze. It comes when it comes, it goes when it goes. It is not within our hands.We cannot capture it in our fist.We can feel it when our hand is open, its coolness, but the moment our fist is closed sure there will be no breeze,no coolness or fragrance.Have to sit in tears with empty hands watching the sky.
Arrange marriage is wiser as can be sure to get something.

6.Love marriage when it is done without parents acceptance,it is like hearing music in headphone.The couples alone can have joy and share happiness.Arrange marriage is like playing the orchestra.Its like sharing and multiplying the happiness and joy with everyone.

7.Love marriage is like learning the new life through distance education without guru.Arrange marriage  has 24*7 hrs support and assisstance to start the new life.

8.Love marriage is like shopping the matching stead by ourself.No need to change our dress as WE matched it.We can be ourself mostly.Arrange marriage is the stead brought by the parents.If it is not to our expectation,we have to change our dress or have to try to change the new stead bought.

9.In both love and arrange marriage gentle breeze,strong winds,thunder and heavy rain all will blow.Everything will occur in cyclic.Gentle breeze or heavy rain nothing can occur continuously.Everything will change but the lasting periods may differ.


10.If we have futuristic thinking and lot of thinking abilities to decide the good and bad for our life,can play the music and exchange the love wedding ring.Have no thinking abilities but want to eat laddoo for time being atleast,then listen music in headphone and wait for the arrange marriage.

11.Both type of marriages are heaven if it happens as we like.Both are hell and painful if it happens otherwise.When things go wrong,as a human being getting a second thought about other type of marriage and regretting for selecting the wrong person is common.

12.Love marriage is starting life closing the saving accounts and withdrawals of money.Arrange marriage is starting life with good source of income.

13.Humans Beings are social animals.Though human relationships are complex,their needs are very common but with varying wants.

Generally,a need for a passionate,lovable,caring and trustworthy companion to share feelings and thoughts and a need for a happy and peaceful life,all such needs are common.As a social animal,in all stages of life we need a companion for surviving and satisfying our needs and wants.We all are dependant creatures right from the mother's womb.Attitudes,traits and wants of everyone is unique.Each may follow their own unique path in life with different attitudes and mind set in taking decisions about the marriage. But we all are alike with the same emotional needs of having a lovable companion and a happy life.

So marriage matters a lot to all of us.Love marriage or arranged,it has nothing to think basically as participants needs are same.Both kind of marriage is basically 10percent already successfull as the couples needs are same.

14.Whether love or arranged marriage,all means the one denoting a lifetime commitment,creating a relationship bond between two persons and bringing many relationships in our life.Both have its pros and cons and have no infulence in making life success or failure.

15.In both marriages , the participants must understand the facts that both persons are seperate individuals.Traits,attitudes and beliefs of every individual is different.Its sometimes very difficult to get tuned and live together.It happens in both arrange and love marriage.


16.Love marriage or arrange marriage,the participants must know each others needs,wants and desires.Then the tolerance,acceptance and adjustment levels will arise and pay way for the  pre-requisite of marriage called "understang".

Everyone Cant get a matching person .If we want we only have to develop understanding and shape our life by tuning or getting tuned.


17.Love marriage or arrange marriage is not a matter but must be successfull alone matters.Life may or may not give what we desire,but setting the success standards based on the availability,we have to work hard to be successfull in our marriage commitment.

18.Love marriage or arrange marriage in both 100 percent success is not possible.But sure we can escape from the failure with our efforts and patience.

19.In love marriage,demands will come like sparks.In arrange marriage demands will be low initially because of the hesitation to ask each other.

20.My conclusion:

The hardships,happiness and life destination is same in both kind of marriages.Based on our priority to our desires can select any kind of marriage but without losing the path with our best efforts we must reach the life destination successfully with our beloved.

Love marriage ya arrange marriage both weighs equal and same.This post is my entry for the contest Love marriage ya Arrange marriage.

2 comments:

  1. nice post :) all the best!!

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    http://saurabhchawla2345.blogspot.com/2012/08/love-is-arranged-by-god-4.html

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